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A Peak Into Kink

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On a recent visit to San Francisco, I attended what I ’ m sure is the only porn studio tour you can take in the United States. Internet pornography giant Kink.com offers tours of their production studios located at the historic Armory in the Mission District of SF. The building has been on the corner of 14th & Mission since 1912 and was once a functioning armory & arsenal for the US National Guard. In 1976, the National Guard moved its facilities out of the city and for the next 30 years the majestic Moorish style structure stood empty. Then i n 2006 Peter Acworth, CEO & founder of Kink.com  finally  bought the property for 14.5 million. He believed the look and feel of the old building was the perfect setting for the BDSM porn he produces!     Kink.com Headquarters - The Armory, San Francisco Before the tour began, we were well advised by our amazing guide Dane Ballard what they do there and how they do it. If you weren't down, you were  free to leave and a

Stress Busters

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If you read my last post, you’ll understand my stress level has been at code red since my father died. I wish time would pause to let this digest but life keeps moving right along, doesn't it? And when life keeps going and going, we need tools to manage the stress that comes with it. I wanted to share my two favorite & most effective tools to relieve stress:  Music & Sex . Music is one of the most primal forms of human communication and expression which explains why it strikes such a chord with us (pun intended). When I was young, I wanted to be a singer but couldn't sing. I decided to study sound in college but I'm no musician or engineer. When I look back on it now, I just wanted to close to where the music was happening. I believe my Dad's eclectic tastes in music made a lasting impression on me and  is probably why music is such a force in my life. Music is important to me because he showed me how it will enrich your life if you just open your ears &

Real Life Shit

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It's hard to think about sex when real life shit is happening. And Real Life Shit has been happening since James Deen's birthday. On Saturday, Feb 8 th , I was beyond excited to take my father to see Zappa plays Zappa, which is Frank Zappa's son Dweezil’s tribute band to his dad. My father Terry   loves   rock music and Zappa is some weird shit but I knew he would love this show since he'd never seen Zappa live so I was beyond excited to take him. But shortly after we got inside the venue, he suffered a massive heart attack before the show even started and was rushed to the hospital. For two weeks he battled to stay alive but was never able to regain consciousness or the use of his limbs. He passed on from this earth on Feb 22 and my life will never be the same. Obviously, losing my father isn't easy to write about especially since parts of my mind are still in disbelief. It's taken more time then I intended to gather my thoughts but I knew I couldn't

DEEN vs. DEAN

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Today is James Deen's 28th birthday and to commemorate this very special day, I’ve written a blog to prove how much more he deserves that name over the other Dean. Don’t get me wrong, I like the other Dean. He was sexy, charismatic, and talented too but the key word here is “WAS”. Unfortunately, he is no longer with us. This isn’t so much a knock against that James Dean so much as this is a plug (butt-plug) for my  James Deen J .   I know my Deen is a pornstar and pornstars don’t get a whole lotta love or respect. Even less respect is given when people hear the name JAMES DEEN and instantly think of the iconic feature film actor. Outrage usually sets in once they find out there’s a new Deen in town who’s alive and well and shooting porn somewhere in the valley!  Don't hate on JD because he's using a pseudonym of someone famous. All porn stars have to choose a name and JD stuck with a nickname he’s had since the 7 th  grade. Back in elementary, his classmates would comment o
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Big Girls Don’t Fvck? If you didn't notice from my profile picture, I'm a big girl. As the song says “Big Girls Don’t Cry” but apparently people think big girls don’t fuck either. A statistic I came across on Twitter claimed, about 1.1 million adult Americans were still virigins. Of course, some idiot commented, “Are they all fat? Well, I’m here to answer that question with an emphatic  NO!  One of my many goals with this blog is to prove big girls get lucky and experience great sex  just  as much as skinny girls  (some of us even more) . I’m sure you’re anticipating some bean spilling about my number of conquests, but simmer down, it’s not your lucky day. Let’s just say I have significant experience with men and I’m always pleasantly surprised by the guys who are interested in me. I’ve had admirers from around the world (France, New Zealand, Denmark, Finland and Ecuador ) and I guess foreign men have more appreciation for voluptuous, curvy women. However, here in