Big Girls Don’t Fvck?
If you didn't notice from my profile picture, I'm a big girl.
As the song says “Big Girls Don’t Cry” but apparently people think big girls don’t fuck either. A statistic I came across on Twitter claimed, about 1.1 million adult Americans were still virigins. Of course, some idiot commented, “Are they all fat?
Well, I’m here to answer that question with an emphatic NO! One of my many goals with this blog is to prove big girls get lucky and experience great sex just as much as skinny girls (some of us even more). I’m sure you’re anticipating some bean spilling about my number of conquests, but simmer down, it’s not your lucky day. Let’s just say I have significant experience with men and I’m always pleasantly surprised by the guys who are interested in me. I’ve had admirers from around the world (France, New Zealand, Denmark, Finland and Ecuador) and I guess foreign men have more appreciation for voluptuous, curvy women. However, here in ‘Merica (that’s I how I spell it), we’re the fattest nation on the planet but our society seems to have a high level of disgust for fat people. Even though we want to super-size everything, we don’t want women who are supersized.
But wait… maybe times are changing. There is a market for girls like me & the chubby chasers who love us. Last July, the 2nd Annual BBW Fan Fest Awards were held in Las Vegas. If you’re not sure what BBW means, its Big Beautiful Woman. I change it up a little though to mean Big Black Woman (that’s me:). This award show is sponsored by PlumperPass.com (yes, it’s a real site) and recognizes BBWs in the adult industry. There are 20 different awards given out in such categories as SSBBW (SS=SuperSized), Big Boobs & Big Belly. There’s a growing fan base for big girl porn and the industry has produced such starlets as April Flores (winner Creative BBW of the Year), Wendy Williams (winner Niche Performer of the Year) & Trouble films creator Courtney Trouble (Director of the Year).
Last week I attended a free class at the Pleasure Chest in West Hollywood called Big Beautiful Sex hosted by Lady Cheeky. She gave excellent advice on appreciating and loving your body, big or small. She discussed helpful hints like walking around your house naked, going to a Korean spa, and noticing how often you judge other people can have a negative effect on how you judge yourself. Cheeky even suggested sex toys for bigger girls to use who might have problems reaching their vagina as well as different ways to use pillows while having sex to make positions more comfortable & enjoyable.
Even Hollywood is starting to recognize larger ladies more than ever before. It’s impressive to see actresses like Melissa McCarthy, Gabourey Sidibe, and Rebel Wilson staring in TV series when they might have been overlooked 5 years ago. I’m not a huge Dancing with the Stars fan but I was ecstatic when Amber Riley from Glee won this season. She’s an inspiration for BBWs everywhere. She was being tossed around that dance floor by little boy Derek Hough week after week and stole the mirror ball trophy from all kinds of skinny girls. After winning, she said:
"I want to let women of all sizes out there know—you can do whatever you put your mind to! It doesn't matter what size you are, what color you are. You can do whatever, whatever, whatever you put your mind to!" – Amber Riley, Star of Glee TV series & 1st Black Female to win Dancing with the Stars (Season 17)
These little accomplishments make me feel like there’s finally a place for big girls to shine in the sun and perhaps shine even brighter at night in the bedroom.
XXX & Luv,
LT
To learn more about BBW worship, go to www.PlumperPass.com
Sex Educator & Writer Elle Chase (aka Lady Cheeky) is on twitter @ladycheeky and also has a site www.SmutforSmarties.com
This sentence really grabbed my attention: "However, here in ‘Merica (that’s I how I spell it), we’re the fattest nation on the planet but our society seems to have a high level of disgust for fat people. Even though we want to super-size everything, we don’t want women who are supersized."
ReplyDeleteI feel like there are bits of double standard and hypocrisy everywhere, but it seems to be even greater in 'Merica to me with what we allow in our food and how we view our bodies here. Our standards for healthy food are lower than other countries', but our standards for beauty seem more harsh. I'd be interested to hear a few non-American takes on this and see if they would agree.
Nice job, LT. You got my brain thinkin', for sure. Thanks for working on this important project.