Inter-Sex-tion - Where the Internet and Sex Intersect

Hi Everyone, I know it’s been a while since I’ve made any posts but I’m alive and well and ready to share a little of my crazy life with you. You’re probably wondering, “Where the fuck you been, girl?” Well, I’ve been working on knowing myself. I know that’s a pretty big statement, but it’s totally true. I was taking some self-development & leadership classes thru this organization place called MITT since December. These training courses helped shed light on areas in my life where I’ve allowed old limiting beliefs I have about myself to prevent me from going after what I really want in life. Some of these beliefs were “I’m too fat” or I’m too black” to have everything my heart truly desires.  I’ve learned to notice the difference between my true self and that voice in my head. Now I say "FUCK OFF" to the voice because  I'm a baby panda and can do whatever I want!   So what was I doing all that time? Here's a quick run down.  February I face

2/7 is a special day for us Deenagers & to wish James Deen a Happy Birthday this year, I created a poem! I think it really expresses how he makes me feel! I hope you enjoy it!  JD & Me!  James Deen is 29 and oh so fine! This man literally blows my mind! Why? You ask & I take a huge gasp before I unleash my wrath!  I know he’s a porn star & I don’t care! I’ll follow this man anywhere!  He opened up a part of me I thought had died! And seeing him for the first time really opened my eyes!  I guess it was the confidence I saw! And ultimately, he was just so real & so raw! I can’t deny those big blue eyes played a part,  Of James Deen taking over my heart!  I felt like a school girl with the biggest crush, On a guy who gives me the most intense rush!  I’ve spent hours & hours watching him do his thang And every time he impresses me with the way he bangs! Whether he’s taking on one girl or five! He makes women’s vaginas come alive!   But it’s not

I’m not gonna lie, 2015 has been pretty damn amazing so far and we're only one month in! I’m looking forward to sharing more of my titillating thoughts & adventures with you as the year continues to roll on! So here we go people! If you didn’t know already January is awards season in the adult industry and I’ve spent the last two weeks surrounded by the hottest porn stars on the planet. For me, it’s been a whirlwind of dreams coming true all over my face! On Jan 15, I went to the XBIZ Awards show at the JW Marriott Hotel in Downtown LA. XBIZ is an adult industry news leader covering digital media, technology, sex toys and so much more!  Hanging in the lobby for the first hour was some of the best people watching I’ve been privileged to experience. I’d look one way and see Kelly Shibari & Asa Akira! I went to the rest room and ran into Remy LaCroix! I left the rest room and saw Annika Albright, Mr.Pete, Skin Diamond, Manuel Farrera & Kayden Kross! I was totall

On a recent visit to San Francisco, I attended what I ’ m sure is the only porn studio tour you can take in the United States. Internet pornography giant Kink.com offers tours of their production studios located at the historic Armory in the Mission District of SF. The building has been on the corner of 14th & Mission since 1912 and was once a functioning armory & arsenal for the US National Guard. In 1976, the National Guard moved its facilities out of the city and for the next 30 years the majestic Moorish style structure stood empty. Then i n 2006 Peter Acworth, CEO & founder of Kink.com  finally  bought the property for 14.5 million. He believed the look and feel of the old building was the perfect setting for the BDSM porn he produces!     Kink.com Headquarters - The Armory, San Francisco Before the tour began, we were well advised by our amazing guide Dane Ballard what they do there and how they do it. If you weren't down, you were  free to leave and a

If you read my last post, you’ll understand my stress level has been at code red since my father died. I wish time would pause to let this digest but life keeps moving right along, doesn't it? And when life keeps going and going, we need tools to manage the stress that comes with it. I wanted to share my two favorite & most effective tools to relieve stress:  Music & Sex . Music is one of the most primal forms of human communication and expression which explains why it strikes such a chord with us (pun intended). When I was young, I wanted to be a singer but couldn't sing. I decided to study sound in college but I'm no musician or engineer. When I look back on it now, I just wanted to close to where the music was happening. I believe my Dad's eclectic tastes in music made a lasting impression on me and  is probably why music is such a force in my life. Music is important to me because he showed me how it will enrich your life if you just open your ears &

It's hard to think about sex when real life shit is happening. And Real Life Shit has been happening since James Deen's birthday. On Saturday, Feb 8 th , I was beyond excited to take my father to see Zappa plays Zappa, which is Frank Zappa's son Dweezil’s tribute band to his dad. My father Terry   loves   rock music and Zappa is some weird shit but I knew he would love this show since he'd never seen Zappa live so I was beyond excited to take him. But shortly after we got inside the venue, he suffered a massive heart attack before the show even started and was rushed to the hospital. For two weeks he battled to stay alive but was never able to regain consciousness or the use of his limbs. He passed on from this earth on Feb 22 and my life will never be the same. Obviously, losing my father isn't easy to write about especially since parts of my mind are still in disbelief. It's taken more time then I intended to gather my thoughts but I knew I couldn't